So, so, so, so, so so.
I am asking myself, how does a 'relationship' start out --- I mean the romantic (and/or sexual) starts? What sparks it, what create it, when does it begin to be a relationship.
I remember a time, when I was 'with' a Muse --- we never really had an anniversary date (we had a whole month, september, I think) --- we were not sure of which date we 'actually' started being, 'together'.
What marks that, 'starting point'?
a kiss? sex? intimate 'sensual' moments? a date? first time you met?
Well, I don't know --- that's what I'm trying to understand,
at what point can you say you are with someone?
But, of all things I know about 'intimacy/relationships' is that once you have kissed that person, it's on --- whatever it is that is going on.
*goes back to la'la land.
ps: I know nothing of matters of the heart.
lol.
...I was just asking the same question a couple of days back, I think most people would say after the kiss.
The thing is that we no longer do the old school - "Err, maria. I love you. so what do u say?"
And she'd say I'll give u an answer on 'tuesday' then if she goes "I love u too", on the 'tuesday' then the date is the anniversary...
Nowadays, I can't say how but it just happens.
Aug 2008
I hear you --- we don't do that anymore di-half le di-full.
but I remember when I was a child (very shy) if I told a girl, 'I love her' and she said, 'she loved me too' --- I didn't know what to do next.
I suppose because of that, I'd rather have things happen, then later, tell her I love her (if I actually do).
nkoane
Aug 2008
woooww, not so long ago i was talking about shellering & how men don't shella anymore...
you're rite, these days one does not know when the 'start' is... and sometimes there is no 'end' either!!
*i gotta lot to learn about matters of the heart
Aug 2008
LOL @ "no end either" <--- story of my (love) life.
*hides
nkoane
Aug 2008